Lindsay Lohan has confirmed her split with Samantha Ronson, stating her need for time alone to focus on herself.

While Lindsay was deep in thought, “focusing on herself,” Samantha was busy rounding up her family and filing a restraining order against Lindsay.

Around 5 p.m. PST on Monday, Sam’s mother, Ann Dexter-Jones, and sister, fashion designer Charlotte Ronson, were at the Beverly Hills Police Department to look into filing a restraining order because Sam wants to “send a message” to Lindsay.

Charlotte and Ann talked to a clerk at the front desk, who advised them,

“The restraining order is the best option. If she violates it, then she gets taken away.”

The Ronsons spoke openly to the officer about their situation. “She does these things to get attention,” said Charlotte of Lohan’s recent actions.

“She was trying to get into my party this weekend. We had to tell security to keep her out. Then she booked a room at the Chateau Marmont. Her room was right below… She also followed our brother Mark around.

[Lindsay] was doing drugs. And we could not sleep that night at the Chateau. She was complaining about the music and noise coming from upstairs. She was trying to get attention, so that Sam could come down.”

“She cuts herself too,” Ann continued. “She is a cutter!”

I would like to take this opportunity to share a few lyrics with you, from Talking Heads:

I cant seem to face up to the facts
Im tense and nervous and i
Cant relax
I cant sleep cause my beds on fire
Dont touch me Im a real live wire

Psycho killer
source: [ok magazine]