Liv Tyler gave a very personal interview to Harper’s Bazaar in the upcoming issue. She talks about the pain of the breakup of her marriage last spring. Liv was married for five years to British musician Royston Langdon. They have a three year old son Milo together.

“For the first time in my life, it’s so much harder for me to get up and brush [off] my knees,” the actress explains. “I am feeling the pain and the loss of everything,”

“I don’t feel calm and collected. I feel neurotic, like Woody Allen,” says Tyler, 31. “I’m a Cancer and sometimes I just feel like a crab without a shell.”

Tyler is living in New York City with her son Milo says that she is not dating. That remains far down the road for her. In truth the ‘Lord of the Rings’ actress says she can not remember the last romantic kiss she had. Now that is just sad.

“I am trying to just let myself feel it,” she says. “I think you have to mourn and you have to feel that pain. I’m trying to just take one day at a time and be the best mom I can – but it is a strange time, like walking down the road with nowhere to go … We’ll see where it takes me.”

She has always seemed so serene and laid back to me. It was eye opening to get a look behind the face she shows to the public. Liv’s calm ways are so unusual these days particularly for a big rock star’s daughter. Feel better Liv, keep strong.

[People]