James Gandolfini and his fiancée, former model Deborah Lin ,were married Saturday in her hometown of Honolulu, Hawaii. As their family and a few of their closest friends looked on James and Deborah exchanged vows in a small intimate ceremony. James, 46, and Deborah, 40, were surrounded by white lilies and rhododendrons decorated every pew of the Central Union Church.

“There was a nice big kiss at the end with both hands on the cheeks” as The Sopranos star and Lin officially became husband and wife, the guest tells PEOPLE. “They looked great.”

James’ son, Michael age 8 from his first marriage to Marcy Wudarsk , stood up as the best man. The bride walked down the aisle to the ‘Hawaiian Wedding Song’. The happy couple has been engaged since 2007.

The wedding went great… no one got whacked. I do miss “The Sopranos.” Tony was such a great big teddy bear… until he shot someone or dismembered a guy. That show was good, scary but good. Best wishes to the happy couple.

[People]